[19:59:35] <m712> is there a way to get a list of documents from a collection which have their _id referenced by a field more than x times by another collection?
[19:59:47] <m712> i.e. a forum posts which have been reported at least x times
[19:59:53] <m712> without modifying the post documents
[20:00:25] <m712> i'm guessing it can be done with aggregate but not sure how i'd implement it
[23:43:47] <jl-> how would you say in one sentence, when definitely to use nosql over sql?
[23:44:01] <jl-> "when you have lots, and lots of data, mostly self-contained"?